Yoda, in all his wisdom, stated, “Do. Or do not. There is no try.”
That may be true if you are a Jedi Knight, but for the rest of us, me specifically, not so much.
In February, I jumped feet first into uncharted territory after attending a board of education meeting. Our school district is in financial crisis. Many cuts are on the table.
I went home that night heartsick about our district and the financial trouble it is in. Some people blame the administration. Some people blame the school board. Some people blame the teachers (who at that time had been working without a contract for approximately two years). Some people blame the Michigan legislators.
I began to think. What if? What if people stopped complaining? What if people stopped placing blame and pointing fingers? What if people came together to make a difference in the lives of kids? What if we raised money to pay for one of the positions being cut?
I emailed the superintendent of the district first thing the next morning. He called me within 10 minutes.
I proposed starting a fundraising campaign separate from the district to raise the funds. Was it legal? Was it something he’d be willing to let me try?
Let me just say quickly that the reasons I chose to fight for this particular cut are:
- Safety of my children is paramount
- This cut represented the lowest annual dollar amount ($29 per family in the district)
- The position being cut impacts every student, teacher and staff member in the district.
Once I had the blessing of the superintendent, I contacted an acquaintance who I knew to be very passionate about this position and a very involved parent in the district to see what she thought.
She was in.
The next four weeks were a whirl wind. We met with the superintendent, the township supervisor, the local community foundation.
We received so much guidance and support from these people! It was truly remarkable.
On March 1, we attended the school board meeting and announced the launch of BSP CARES: Bedford Students Protected through Combining Area Resources for Educational Safety.
We worked our tails off and had much early success, raising $17,000 by the end of March. The media was very kind to us and covered every fundraiser we had, helping us spread the word. We definitely had the support of the local business community.
But over time it became clear that we lacked the financial support of parents and teachers-the two most important groups if this effort was going to succeed.
In the end, we raised over $38,000 against a goal of $80,000 and the position was cut December 6.
I guess Yoda would call that a “Do not.” I call it a “try.”
I learned a lot about people in our community, politics, my family and mostly myself.
- Our community is filled with generous people! Generous with their time, their talent, their wisdom and their money.
- People can take the well-meaning efforts of two moms and turn them into a political issue.
- My family has a limit in how much of my time they are willing to allow me to give to others. (It’s a very high limit, but there is a limit.)
- And myself—
- I jump in quicker than I should sometimes.
- I allow my priorities to get upended sometimes, putting other things ahead of my family.
- I’m not bad on camera.
- I place a lot of importance on my hair.
- I can make a difference.
And I hope I am teaching my children:
- Stand up for what you believe in.
- Get involved.
- Don’t be afraid to try.
So, no, I’m not a Jedi Knight. I’m a mom. A wife. A community member. And so much more!
And, I’ll keep on trying!
Talk to me! Have you ever taken on a huge project that you were very passionate about only to fall short of your original goal? How did it feel?